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Does he like me?

By Robert Phipps

Party season will soon be upon us and it’s a great time for flirting your socks off but how do you know if your flirting is working?

Here’s five of the most common signals to tell he’s falling for you and wants more.

Eye Contact: This is where it all starts from that very first moment when your eyes meet. If he likes what he’s seeing then the eye contact is held just very slightly longer than is normally polite. If you like him and want to give him some encouragement, look him up and down then back to his eyes and just raise both your eyebrows momentarily and give him a little nod that you approve.
Territory: In order for you and him to get together one for you has to make the move to get closer so you can actually engage and chat. You could simply beckon him over with your finger curling it back towards yourself. If he doesn’t go for that, you have to decide whether he’s worth chasing, if so then you have to make the move into his territory.
Touch: You are now both together chatting away and things are going well, touch is the next thing on the agenda. If he makes a move to touch you first, he’s into you. If he doesn’t he may just be shy and need a little encouragement, so touching him first is like giving him permission to touch you back. Nothing sexual at this stage, just a casual hand on his forearm for a few seconds as you say something and lean into his personal space.
Attention: If you’ve got to this point then it’s now about closing out others so as he can give you his full attention. Notice if he starts to turn his back on his friends or angle his body towards you blocking out others to talk just with you.
Move: You’ve made eye contact, got together, put out some feelers and you have his full attention. The next stage is moving on to somewhere else another bar, club, coffee shop, back to your place? See, if he makes the move to get you all to himself away from friends or colleagues. This could be a simple invitation to meet up later in the week for lunch, coffee, movie. It’s up to you at this point whether you want to give him your phone number or just say goodnight.

Article by

Robert Phipps

Article by

Robert Phipps